Women generally like to keep it private when it comes to their sexual life. It forms a part of those intimate memories which they don't like to talk it out to everyone. Have you ever wondered as to what makes your woman happy when she is with you in the bed? Let us consider some points here. Always remember that your woman would hate to reveal her emotions. And the same goes in the case of her sexual behavior as well. You would have to take an initiative to explore the physical realm of your woman. But, the prerequisite is to win her over emotionally.

While making love, make her feel special and don't hurt her. You have to show that you are aggressive and passionate about making love with her. But it would be better if you reveal your basic instincts without hurting her physically. This is the biggest mistake that men generally make and it is a big turn off for any woman. She wants the man of her dreams to cuddle her, and not become a hungry animal falling on his prey. You must also make efforts to talk to her while you are making love with her. Talking would make her feel good and comfortable. Many women feel a lot of pain while indulging in sexual intercourse. And if your girl is one of them, you can use sexual enhancers like lubricants that can be applied before making love. It would not only ensure an easy and painless penetration but it would also add on to the sexual joy that would enable her to reach orgasm easily.

Orgasm... well it is also one of the most debated issues. Many women complain that they never reach their orgasm when they make love. It is because men often find it difficult to control their ejaculation and women find it difficult to reach orgasm very easily. And the result is that men are able to enjoy sex without making their partners happy. And this leads on to frustration and alienation in women towards sexual intercourse. Women can use sexual enhancers like vibrators to enjoy the sexual experience. Else, men can also help their partners enjoy the sexual activity by indulging more in the foreplay. And always remember the mantra...to enjoy the experience to the pinnacle, than to rush towards to end..!!

Yoga has proved it's efficacy in almost all aspects of health. Sexual health also happens to be an essential aspect of being healthy. And Yoga has not bared sex from its holistic health planning.In fact yoga practices have laid great emphasis on healthy sexual life. A good number of yoga asana and exercises are specifically meant to enhance your sexual energy.

Yoga's sexual philosophy says that for getting sexual pleasure your mind and body should remain in a rejuvenated state and this rejuvenation could be only brought about by various yoga practices. These yoga practices include all forms of yoga- be it asana, pranyama or dhyana.

Various sexual dysfunctions could be effectively cured by yoga. Yoga even offers cure for male impotency. Because of yoga's efficacy in improving your sexual life, yoga is being practiced by a good number of folks with the sole purpose of enhancing sexual drive. But Yoga never advocates excess of sex. It sticks to the conventional concept of sex that the act of sex is primarily meant for procreation.

Among various types of Yoga, Tantra Yoga is said to be very much linked with sex. Tantra Yoga was a preferred practice in ancient India to better you sexually. Ancient Indian guide of sex Kamasutra have advocated usefulness of Tantra Yoga for enhanced level of sexual pleasure. This practice of Tantra Yoga has recently gone through a renaissance as more and more folks prefer it over Viagra and other medications to gain desired level of erection.

Asanas of Tantra Yoga bring in required physiological changes to propel more secretion of sexual hormones. These hormones in turn help gain desired sexual potency. In addition to that Tantra Yoga also contributes to increased flexibility and freshness. These factors combine together to serve a unified purpose that is your better sexual life. Kamsutra offers around sixty yoga positions for ideal sex. These sexual positions have been proved effective in solving marital discord arising out of sexual dissatisfaction. Thus Yoga could be a very effective way of improving your conjugal relationship.

Various yoga breathing techniques are particularly helpful in bettering you for sex. These breathing techniques along with Hot Yoga asana would enable you overpowered with sexual potential. So folks, gear up and make best use of yoga poses to enjoy a healthy and better sex life.

In the best sexual position series, we have endeavored to bring you new and pertinent sex health information not readily available elsewhere. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for an older man use. Our authority will be Errol Flynn.

Errol Flynn

The famous phrase “in like Flynn” seemed to appear in the early 1940s when Errol was on trial for “statutory rape” of two under-aged girls. The girls were 18 and Errol was 33.

Errol was acquitted, but human nature being what it was, his reputation was fixed thereafter.

The incident, and a great more detail can be found in Errol’s own book, ‘My Wicked Wicked Ways’. However, a quote by Nor a Eddington (later to be one of Flynn’s wives) commenting on the trial,

“I seriously doubt it; a guy like Flynn doesn't have to rape a girl. His problem is how to prevent them from raping him."

Flynn lived until only 50, and died on his yacht while with his girlfriend.

It is from one of his many women (always much younger than himself) where we found Flynn’s favorite (and best) sexual position. There is no way to prove the information is correct, but sincere research into his, and the lives of other sexual masters, bears out some similarities that gives credence to our information.

Flynn was a heavy drinker, used opium and smoked continuously (both tobacco and cannabis). Sex under those conditions, and with younger women, would prove also additional evidence that our information is correct.

The Flynn Position

This will be a woman on top position, but in three variations. The first is the woman mounting the man astride, where the man simply lies down, and the woman mounts him, and herself facilitates penetration.

The woman will support herself while resting her hands on the man’s chest, and do all the movement, in a bump and grind, and then forward churning motion.

At this point the man grabs the woman’s back and pulls her down to him, chest to breast. At this point the man starts thrusting, and the woman will be able to kiss the man, or put her head slightly to the side of his. Women tend to orgasm very quickly in this position.

The Flynn position will then shift with the woman, now sitting up aside again, but still penetrated, swivel to face away from the man. The man has now a wonderful view of his penetration, and the woman’s buttocks and genital area.

The man facilitates the woman in rising and falling on his penis, and then, the woman, while fully penetrated, goes back to her churning movement, rubbing very hard her clitoral area against the man’s. Again, orgasm for the woman can arrive very quickly and profoundly.

A Note on the Flynn Position

Our hero, Errol, had by reputation, great powers of self-control (over his climax and ejaculation). The position above would prove out to facilitate that control, except for the middle pose where the woman and man are chest to breast.

As to this being the best position for an older guy and younger woman, we would invite all prospective candidates for this to try and agree with or dispute the validity of Errol Flynn.

Preoccupation with the male genitalia and virility is not a new social behavior. Ancient civilizations had already placed a high value on the phallus not only for sexual reasons but also for the preservation of peace and order. The phallus was a very important symbol in the Roman Empire, specifically in the city of Pompeii. Pompeii is famous for being the Roman city that was literally buried in lava, mud, and rocks when Mount Vesuvius erupted in 79 B.C. Accidentally discovered in 1748, the city was found beneath meters of ash and pumice. People who resided in that city were found stone-like and lying in different poses that showed their panic and despair that fateful day when the volcano took away their lives and property.

But another interesting find in the ruins was a fresco inside the Villa dei Vetii. The fresco showed Priapus weighing his penis against a sack of money. In Greek mythology, Priapus was a fertility god who was also considered the protector of livestock, plant life, and yes, even the male genitals. Called Mutinus Mutunus in Roman mythology, the said minor god was the son of Aphrodite and Adonis. The fresco boasted how Priapus' privates outweighed the bag full of coins. In fact, sculptures and images of Priapus were placed by farmers in the field supposedly to ensure the abundance of the harvest. For the Romans, his status also served as a scarecrow. The erect penis was not only propped to scare off the birds but burglars as well. These statues usually had inscriptions that contained the threat of sodomy on anyone caught stealing in the field or house where the said stone figures were set-up. During those times, rape was a common punishment for criminal offenders.

Archaeologists and sociologists believe that for many men during those ancient days, a properly functioning penis was crucial to having self-esteem. Proficiency and endurance in sexual activity were considered “manly” attributes, and are still viewed as such by most 21st century men. But what is really interesting in the archaeological ruins of Pompeii is how the penis as a symbol was highly regarded, even revered, by the Roman people.

Today, we can hardly see pictures or statues of men that show the disproportionately sized penis. In ancient Rome, it was important enough to commission an artist to paint such a scene inside one's villa. Still, the preoccupation with the male genitals and sexual performance is still a “silent concern” for most men. Lack of sexual ability, or more accurately, the inability to achieve an erection is a major male concern. It is estimated that at least 30 million American men have been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. As a sexual health problem, male impotence is defined as the total inability to achieve an erection; an inconsistent ability to achieve an erection; or a tendency to sustain an erection for only brief moments.

Sexual health is more than just an issue of prevention and control of sexually transmitted disease. More appropriately, it is concerned with the physical, emotional and even relational conditions of people. Specifically, male sexual health is focused on a man's ability to have an erection, which is crucial to performing the sexual act. Intimacy in marriage or in deeper, physical relations between a man and a woman is normally attached to the issue of having the “capacity to perform.” While professional definitions of sexual health goes beyond anatomical and coital discussions, most ordinary men and women attribute the term to acts “in the bedroom.” Surely, men will do well to elevate the discussion of male sexual health above sexual trivia, positions, and performance. Aside from the obvious need to be informed about the dangers of sexually transmitted disease, men should also be educated about the women's sexuality and women's needs. Unlike men, the sexual functions of women are influenced by a number of factors, and not the normal rise in libido.

To access reliable and professional advice regarding sexuality and sexual health, both men and women should consider an appointment with a professional counselor or doctor at the nearest sexual health clinic. It is a known fact, especially in poor countries, that what goes around as knowledge about sexual health is nothing short of a myth. Often, young boys and girls rely on the peer group to get information about sexual health, or about sex itself.

But for men, whether they live in a poor country or in a developed nation, sexual problems must still be addressed by going to a sexual health clinic. Erectile dysfunction is not just a physical problem. It is also linked to emotional and psychological distress. While men who suffer from erectile dysfunction still have the ability to father a child, they do encounter challenges in sustaining their relationships and even their own self-esteem. By getting professional help, men with erectile dysfunction can benefit from science-based information and even medications such as Sildenafil (usually sold under the brand name Viagra), Vardenafil, and Finasteride.

Indeed, getting information on how to attain good sexual health need not be as difficult as excavating Pompeii. Male sexual health is not about achieving the legendary size of Priapus or have circus-like abilities for the most intimate human act. Sexual health is, above all, about maintaining physical health, safety in intimacy, and sustaining good relationships with those we love.